• Jenny Grimminck

Make Your Vacation Home A 5-Star Luxury BDSM Destination

Updated: Sep 15

Have you been dreaming of a romantic couples getaway designed with kinky details that reminds you of your favourite adults only resort?

Where you can step into a world that’s all your own to be fully present with your partner? Away from the hustle and bustle of the city. The overflowing inbox, phone calls, and meetings. Trading in the smell of fumes for fresh Muskoka air. The peace and quiet of wind whispering through the pines, birds chirping and water lapping at the shore. Where you can put down your devices and indulge in coitus without interruptus.

One of the least used colours for a whole room is black...but as it is my favourite I couldn’t help myself! I assure you that going “outside the box” is totally okay and something I highly encourage! So strap in and get ready to go on this adventure with me 🖤


* All links in this post are for the amazingly talented artists, craftsmen and craftswomen that I'm thankful to know, who are passionate about their work and care about the clients they serve!

IT’S ALL IN THE DETAILS

The pièce de résistance and my inspiration for this principal bedroom design- black and white couple boudoir photography.


BDSM kink Black bedroom with velvet chair and fireplace sex room sexy
BLACK BEAUTY- Dark & moody bedroom for two with seating and fireplace

A room of importance for the erotic art to be displayed! Not wanting glare on glass from the lights above or windows across the room- having them printed on canvas and recessed into a thin black metal frame gives them the appearance floating. If this is something you’ve been thinking about doing with your love muffin I’ve got a gal- the incredible Intimate Portrait and Boudoir photographer Aroha from The Boudoir Lounge.

To reduce noise and light pollution from the hallway the entrance doors are solid wood complete with weather-stripping and a door sweep. And of course the French doors feature mouldings duplicating the walls- any chance to use custom mouldings I can’t resist.

The seating area in this space was really important to experience comfort whether you are sitting alone, have company on your lap or resting by your feet. The chairs are covered in luxurious black velvet with nailhead detail and swivel to face the fireplace, the magical outdoor scenery, and the bed. With so many options it will be difficult to choose which view to watch! P.S. The nailhead detail is on the sides and back of the chair so it doesn’t feel cold or hard on your arms. #attentiontodetail

For a little glitz and glam beside the antique mirror (which tilts down for added viewing pleasure) I included wall sconces that coordinate with the chandelier on dimmers for another layer of soft lighting. A TV was not hung above the fireplace keeping distractions out of the bedroom and to preserve the sensual feel of the space but a sound system with integrated ceiling speakers helps to set the mood during play or rest.

Hidden doors to the his and hers ensuite keep the room flowing and doesn't distract the eye. Plus hidden doors are the coolest and it’s fun to be in on the secret!

A warm and cozy fireplace in the bedroom, yes please! Enough said, lol.


Sometimes it's just as important as what goes into a room as what doesn't. Wondering what I mean by this?

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BLACK BEAUTY- Sexy tufted velvet custom headboard for sleep and play

A footboard, chaise or upholstered bench are often included in such a large bedroom. In this case they would be in the way of how the end of the bed and open area would be used for restraints or a spanking bench so they weren't included. Master R's Dungeon Equipment is my go to for beautiful hand crafted custom BDSM playroom and dungeon furniture pieces that are built to last!

The custom fabric and wood headboard is covered with tufted velvet and faux leather buttons with a ring pull installed for play or sleeping. The metal is recessed into the fabric so no one is scratched by the edges and the velvet is super soft to the touch- duplicating the chair material.

The nightstands have interior outlets and USB for charging sex toys and drawers for bondage gear storage! A larger collection is stored in the walk-in closet. Shout out to the team at Sinvention Boutique for their selection of premium adult toys and sexy in-house custom made fetish leathers.


You may be wondering where the closet doors are? Well hidden doors to the walk-in closet were also used. You can never have too many hidden doors, stay tuned ;)

Light control from the comfort of bed is achieved by having black switches installed beside the headboard, on dimmers (which a must for all rooms). The Clapper is no longer required, which makes me wonder if spankings would have turned the lights on and off back in the day???

A gorgeous large scale chandelier is a main focal point of this room highlighting the ceiling detail. The pot lights are half covered to wash the walls so no light is directly shining down right into your eyes. One of my biggest pet peeves!

Specification of upgraded windows and doors that reduce outdoor noise just like we did for the interior doors. What’s the point of doing one and not the other!

Wall to wall black sheers filter the light with some privacy while still being able to see the pretty view and a layer of room darkening black velvet drapes block the light, reduce noise, and provide full privacy. The drapery controls have been hardwired into the room with placement beside the bed, the entrance, and the exterior French doors. You never know where the mood will strike.


SURPRISE! More hidden doors ;)


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BLACK BEAUTY- Hidden bar and coffee station in this principal bedroom

A hidden coffee bar complete with refrigerator/freezer drawers below that includes an ice maker. A great way to relax before starting the day without ever having to leave the comfort of the bedroom or sipping tea in front of the fire while wrapped in a blanket reading a book on a cold rainy day.

A hidden wet bar for an evening beverage (this is where the ice maker comes in handy) to wind down after a long day, or to enjoy a glass of wine with dinner out on the private patio. Creating a luxury resort in your own home, um yes please!


Who would say no to a private patio for the pure pleasure of cuddling up together to watch sunsets, thunderstorms rolling in, and making love under moonlit nights? Not this girl!

Ceilings are often forgotten about during the planning stage but there is so much potential to elevate the room design. With the use of mouldings, staggered heights, layered lighting and an amazing installer who LOVES detailed work- you won’t want to stop admiring your gorgeous ceiling.


If only there was an interior decorator out there that specializes in erotic spaces that also happens to be awesome (winky face).

Working with me allows you to express yourself and your relationship in new and exciting ways you have always wanted to or didn’t know you could. A home that's one-of-a-kind and brilliantly tailored for you.


If a 5-star luxury getaway experience that’s all yours and private is on your wish list pop me an email and we can schedule a discovery call to see if WWD is the right fit for your project! My work ranges from vanilla relationships to kink and BDSM lifestyles.

Embrace the wonderful weirdness that is you 💀

Lots of Love,

Jenny




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