How much does it cost? And how long will it take? I’m answering the two questions I’m asked most often and sharing the fucking numbers. We’re talking million-dollar retainers, multi-million-dollar design fees, wild ideas, years-long timelines, and why fluffing pillows is only two days of a 1,825-day project. Whether you’re dreaming of a one-of-a-kind kinky dream home, curious about the answers, or a fellow designer or creative, let’s make money and time a little less of a my

This episode is an intimate look at what happens when you sit across from me and tell the truth about your kinky sex life. Not the watered down version, not the PG version, but the way you live and lead inside a devoted D/s dynamic. We talk about rituals, roles, power exchange, and what it feels like to bring those private parts of your relationship into the open so I can design a home built for pleasure, intimacy, and the way your bodies move through space.

This week, we’re diving into The Discovery Call, the very first step toward designing your sexy ass love nest. This is where curiosity meets clarity, where money, timeline, and trust take center stage. I’ll walk you through what actually happens during this one-of-a-kind call: what I ask, what I listen for, and how I know when we’ve got that undeniable spark. Think of it as foreplay for your forever fantasy, a candid, funny, and unfiltered look at how luxury design begins.