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Writer's pictureJenny Grimminck

The Art of Surrender: Letting Your Designer Take the Lead

This blog post was inspired by a question I get asked all the time: How involved are we in the design process? And my answer is... drumroll … you’re barely involved in the design process at all, and honestly, that’s the way I prefer it! For me to do my best work, I need your full trust. When you give me that, I’ll create the most insanely badass home beyond anything you could ever imagine!


This image showcases a dark purple living room with a warm, intimate atmosphere. The rich, deep purple walls are paired with plush, comfortable seating, creating a cozy environment. At the center, a couple is seen cuddling on the sofa, enjoying a moment of close connection. The dim lighting casts a soft glow, highlighting the luxurious textures and deep colors throughout the room. Personal touches like framed art and subtle decor pieces enhance the inviting feel of the space. The overall vibe of the image exudes comfort, warmth, love, and a deep sense of belonging.
Image: Having fun with AI

Once you’ve filled out the lifestyle questionnaire, bared your soul in some deep and meaningful conversations during our client meetings, attended the pre-construction huddles, and given the design concept a thumbs-up, guess what? Your involvement pretty much fades away.


You’re hiring me—your designer—and the build team for our expertise, creativity, and ingenuity. This requires a deep level of trust, and it’s essential that you feel confident I’m the right designer who will bring your wildest fantasies to life.


Time is Your Most Valuable Asset


As an Athletic Powerhouse, Entrepreneurial Icon, or Doctor Extraordinaire, your time is your most valuable asset. You don’t have the time—or the inclination—to be deeply involved in every step of this project, and spending hours mulling over tile samples? Not your scene—and it shouldn’t be! You outsource your business needs, and this project is no different. The build team and I will handle all the nitty-gritty details, allowing you to focus on what you do best, while we create the seductive, luxurious home you’ve always desired.


No Image Can Capture What I’ll Design For You


There is nothing you can point to or show me that resembles the home I’ll design for you. No Pinterest board, no online image, no magazine spread. What the build team and I create together will be a completely one-of-a-kind masterpiece, uniquely tailored to you and your love muffin(s). It’s going to reflect your deepest desires and lifestyle—a magical wonderland that’s never existed before and will never exist again. Get ready for something epic.


Surrendering Your Home into My Care and Keeping


When you choose to work with me, you're not just hiring a designer—you’re surrendering your home into my care. Together, we’re going to create an intimate, seductive sanctuary that reflects the sexiest parts of who you are. I’ll take the time to get to know what turns you on—your tastes, your fantasies, your lifestyle—and then I’ll get to work, turning your home into a sensual playground. All you need to do is sit back and let me handle everything.


Trusting the Process


From here on out, you’re in good hands—literally. The build team and I will handle every single detail, ensuring that your home is designed to make your heart race without you having to lift a finger. Over the next three to six plus years, we’re going to be crafting the erotic home you’ve been dreaming of.


If the idea of surrendering and letting me work my magic excites you, then buckle up, because you’re about to embark on something truly special.



You're Confident In Your Sex Life. Now, Be Confident In Your Home!

Your home plays a crucial role in setting the mood, and it should be a seamless extension of your lifestyle. Does the idea of explaining your kinks and desires to a designer give you the heebie-jeebies? If only there were someone who specializes in creating intimate interiors for badass soulmates—and is also pretty awesome. Well, have no fear—Jenny is here! Cue Wonder Woman pose 🖤


Working with me allows you to explore and express your relationship in bold, exciting ways you’ve always dreamed of—or didn’t even know were possible! Fill out the design inquiry to see if White Wave Design is the dream come true match for your full-scale renovation or luxury new construction project. My designs celebrate all relationships, from the sweet to the spicy, including kink and BDSM lifestyles.


Let’s be badass together,

Jenny 💀

Principal Creative Genius & Badass Designer

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